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		<title>How to Eliminate Procrastination</title>
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To be successful takes a great deal of effort and willpower. To fail is the easiest thing to do: do nothing!Here are a few tips to get you to do it:



1. Organise emails:
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<h3>To be successful takes a great deal of effort and willpower. To fail is the easiest thing to do: do nothing!<br />Here are a few tips to get you to do it:</h3>
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<strong>1. Organise emails:</strong><br />
Process information as quickly as possible and turn it into actions. Start by organising your emails into various file folders. If the message needs to be actioned, move it to a &#8216;To-do&#8217; file. If it is for reference, print it out immediately, file it and delete the email. If it is a meeting, move it to your calendar. Take the To-do emails and plan to action them in your diary. Let your diary tell you when to action the email.<br />
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<strong>2. Plan when to read emails:</strong><br />
Plan in your diary when to check on emails. The human mind is an inquisitive mind. As soon as an email arrives, we are tempted to read it. Not only does this distract us from what we are working on, it also wastes unnecessary time responding to something that may not be important. When someone emails you, they are not necessarily expecting an immediate response, rather a proficient response. If they require an urgent response they won&#8217;t have any difficulty in reaching you by any other means.<br />
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<strong>3. The Important task rule:</strong><br />
Plan in your diary what the Important tasks are and deal with them first. An Important task is not always urgent. If you focus on Urgent tasks only, your life becomes stressed and your function takes on the role of &#8216;putting out fires&#8217; and losing focus on what is really happening around you.<br />
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<strong>4. One task at a time:</strong><br />
It is one thing to be able to multi-task, but can you focus effectively on all these tasks at the same time? Productivity may decrease and quality affected. The saying is true, &#8220;You can only sit on one seat at a time&#8221;.<br />
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<strong>5. Set deadlines: </strong><br />
When you have one particular task that you must accomplish, don&#8217;t leave it hanging. Give yourself a firm deadline that you must adhere to. When you waste time at the beginning, you will increase your stress levels as the deadline approaches.<br />
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<strong>6. Do it now:</strong><br />
When it comes to the little things, take on the &#8220;do it now&#8221; attitude. All those little things can add up to major stress if you continue to procrastinate. This just means that if you receive a bill in the post, go online and pay it. If you find something out of place around the house, put it away. Stop allowing yourself to save additional tasks for later.<br />
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<strong>7. Break up tasks: </strong><br />
All of us at times procrastinate due to the task being too large and in our minds insurmountable. For example, packing up boxes when we move home. There may be numerous boxes to pack and just the thought of it is daunting. Tell yourself that you&#8217;re going to pack one or two boxes per day and before you know it, the whole house is packed up and ready to be transported.<br />
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<strong>8. Make it easy to get started:</strong><br />
The problem is not finishing tasks, so often we have a problem starting them. Never dive into a task with all that enthusiasm without first knowing where and how you are going to start. Visualize how the completed task will look, then start by breaking it down into manageable chunks. Plan which chunk you will complete first and by when, and then only move onto the next chunk.<br />
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<strong>9. Get someone to hold you accountable:</strong><br />
It is easy to feel alone when snowed under by many tasks, but when it comes to overcoming procrastination there are probably many people that would want to offer you their assistance. When you have a particular task that you need to accomplish, ask this person to check up on you at certain intervals. This will assist to help you to hold yourself accountable and become a master at overcoming procrastination.<br />
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<strong>10. Give yourself a reward:</strong><br />
Give yourself a small reward after you complete a specific task or milestone. If you know a coffee break is waiting for you when you are finished doing something tedious, you will be inspired to get it done.</p>
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		<title>7 Tips for Accomplishing your Goals in Bite Sized Pieces</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Nov 2011 12:05:14 +0000</pubDate>
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When it comes to accomplishing our goals we’re encouraged to reach for the  stars and set big hairy audacious goals.
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<p>When it comes to accomplishing our goals we’re encouraged to reach for the  stars and set big hairy audacious goals.<br />
Although it’s great to be  ambitious when we set goals like this,<br />
we get so overwhelmed by how  we’re going to actually manage to accomplish such things that we don’t  bother to take action in the first place.<br />
As a result our goals simply  remain unrealized dreams.</p>
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<p>With a few changes in the way we do  things and the adoption of some simple mindsets we can make progress  towards our goals much faster.</p>
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<h1>Bite Off Less Than You Can Chew</h1>
<p>Most  people never take action or stop half way to the goal line because they  bite off more than they can chew. Eventually the goal they have in mind  goes from being the pursuit of a dream to a daily chore. As a result  they lose the motivation to work on a goal and before they know it the  goal is yet another thing they didn’t follow through on.</p>
<p>By starting with bite sized pieces, our view of how much progress we’ve made shifts dramatically. Let’s say you want to <a href="http://www.dumblittleman.com/2007/09/complete-your-first-book-with-these-9.html">write a book</a>.  Rather than concerning yourself with finishing the whole book, focus on  finishing the first chapter or even the first page.  It’s far less  daunting and you will actually feel a sense of accomplishment as opposed  to feeling like you’re goal is so far off.</p>
<h1>Take Action Daily</h1>
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The  only way to get any sort of result is to take action towards a goal. By  taking action every single day you create momentum. As momentum  increases, the results taken from your action will become much more  substantial, and eventually you’ll be at a point where you actually  can’t stop because you’ve reached the point of no return.</p>
<h1>Celebrate Small Victories</h1>
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When  you assess the progress towards a goal you have choices. You can either  focus on how far you have to go or look at how far you’ve come. When  you do the latter, it tends to motivate and inspire you. When you do the  former it demoralizes and demotivates you. We’re so caught up in  getting to where we want to go that we forget to enjoy the journey and  celebrate the small victories along the way.</p>
<h1>Learn from Setbacks</h1>
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Setbacks  and failure are a part of accomplishing anything worth doing in life.  In almost every story of massive success that you’ll come across, there  are MAJOR setbacks that took place.  Setbacks are usually opportunity in  disguise and we have to remember that sometimes we’ll take 2 steps back  in order take 20 steps forward. If you look back over the course of  your life you’ll notice the serendipitous nature of setbacks.</p>
<h1>Keep Charging Forward</h1>
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Many  people tend to give up on a goal when they feel stuck or as though  there is not light at the end of tunnel. One of the best ways to get  past this is to adopt that attitude belief that when you feel the most  frustrated and most ready to give up, you’re on the verge of a major  breakthrough. It would be a shame to make so much progress towards a  goal and abandon the pursuit in your final hours. Often, accomplishment  occurs on the final hours of a goal.</p>
<h1>Take a Break</h1>
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We  live in a world today where people seem intent on moving a million  miles an hour. As a result people suffer from anxiety and diseases that  didn’t exist before we got ourselves in such a hurry. It’s important to  make a point daily to take a break from everything and do something  without any purpose other than for the enjoyment of whatever you’re  doing. Don’t walk for the sake of exercise. Just walk for the sake of  walking.</p>
<h1>Detach from the Outcome</h1>
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Our  need for instant gratification is so strong that when we don’t see a  result form something we’re working on immediately we become tempted to  abandon its pursuit. But consider the actions you take the seeds that  you plant in order for your goal to come to fruition. If you pull those  seeds out of the ground to check on the progress of their growth you’re  essentially starting the process all over again.  So, let nature take  its course  and stay detached from the outcome.</p>
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<p>Treat your goals  as part of the game of life and don’t take everything so seriously. If  you do that you’ll find yourself not only enjoying the process but  making much more progress.</p>
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		<title>Six Ways to Become More Self-Motivated</title>
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<p>Do  you find it tough to work towards your goals – even when you know  they’re worthwhile? Perhaps you’ve tried to push yourself forwards with  willpower &#8230; but it hasn’t worked.</p>
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<p>Instead of willpower, you need more <em>self-motivation</em>. That way, you won’t run out of energy – and you might even find yourself enjoying life more!</p>
<h2>Here’s how to become more self-motivated:</h2>
<h1>#1: Spend Your Time on Tasks You Enjoy</h1>
<p>If  you have a choice about what you’ll spend your time on – perhaps what  job you’ll take, or what you’ll major in at college – then choose  something that you’ll enjoy. Going for a job that pays a little more, or  a major that sounds a bit more prestigious, isn’t going to help you  stay motivated.</p>
<p>Even if you’re working in a job that you dislike, you probably have <em>some</em> control over the tasks you take on.<br />
Can you ask to be involved with a new, interesting project? Can you  volunteer to help your manager with a particular piece of work?</p>
<h1>#2: Take Pride in What You’re Doing</h1>
<p>Some  activities can seem pretty futile. Perhaps you’re a small cog in a big  machine at work, and it’s tough to see how your contribution matters.<br />
The truth is, it <em>does</em> make a difference – your company wouldn’t have hired you in the first place if it didn’t.</p>
<p>It’s easier to be self-motivated when you take pride in what you’re doing, and you do it to the best of your ability.<br />
Whether you’re cleaning the house or dealing with customers, you can consciously decide to do your very best.</p>
<h1>#3: Think About the Outcome</h1>
<p>In  an ideal world, every task would be its own reward. Of course, it  doesn’t always work like that.<br />
You’ve probably got a bunch of tasks on  your list that aren’t especially interesting or enjoyable – but you want<br />
to get them done anyway because they’ll take you towards your goals.</p>
<p>Try focusing on the <em>outcome</em>: that qualification at the end of your degree course, or the money you’ll have if you stick to your savings plan.</p>
<p>You might even want to find an image that helps represent this outcome  (the job you want to have, or the car you’re planning to buy) and keep  it close to hand.</p>
<h1>#4: Be Careful With Your Use of Rewards</h1>
<p>Some people motivate themselves with rewards: <em>Once I’ve answered these emails, I’ll have a chocolate bar.</em><br />
This can be helpful if you really need to push yourself through a  particular task – but if you do it too often,<br />
you’ll find yourself  relying on the reward instead of your natural motivation.</p>
<p>Think instead about the rewards inherent in the task itself: <em>Once I’ve answered these emails,<br />
I’ll feel on top of things</em> or <em>Answering these emails helps me to keep our customers happy.</em> Instead of seeing the task as yet<br />
another item on your list, think of its real impact on you and others.</p>
<h1>#5: Learn Something New</h1>
<p>We’re  all natural learners – it’s how we survive. “Learning” isn’t just for  children and students: it’s something we do throughout our lives. If  you’ve ever struggled to figure out a new piece of software and had an  “aha” moment, you’ll know how good it can feel to learn something new.</p>
<p>If there are specific areas in your life where you feel very unmotivated, is that because you’re not confident? You might hate cooking, writing, exercising or some other task, because  you know you struggle to do it well. Taking the time to learn about it  could really boost your motivation.</p>
<h1>#6: Stay Focused While You’re Working</h1>
<p>You might be motivated to <em>start</em> a new task &#8230; but if your attention wanders after five minutes, you’re  going to struggle to keep that motivation going. Every time you switch  to something else (like Facebook or your phone), you’re breaking your  concentration.</p>
<p><strong>Stay focused on one thing at a time – even  if that means turning off your internet connection or blocking websites  that distract you</strong>.<br />
If you keep stopping and starting, it’ll  seem like your task is dragging on forever – it’s much more motivating  to make steady progress.</p>
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<p>The reason that we experience suffering comes ultimately                from our mind. According to Buddhism, our main mental problems or                <a href="http://viewonbuddhism.org/delusion_introduction.html">root delusions</a> are: <a href="http://viewonbuddhism.org/attachment.html">attachment</a>,                <a href="http://viewonbuddhism.org/anger.html">anger</a> and <a href="http://viewonbuddhism.org/delusions_pride_ignorance_doubt_loneliness.html">ignorance</a>.                Because of these delusions, we engage in actions that cause problems                to ourselves and others. With every negative action (karma) we do,                we create a potential for negative experiences. (See also the page                on <a href="http://viewonbuddhism.org/karma.html">karma</a>.)</p>
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<p>How can <strong>attachment</strong> bring us suffering?<br />
We just have to think of chocolate and there is the temptation of                eating more than is good for us. Or as example, my favourite story:                the way people used to catch monkeys in South India:</p>
<blockquote><p>One takes a coconut and makes a hole in it, just large enough                  that a monkey can squeeze its hand in. Next, tie the coconut down,                  and put a sweet inside. What happens next is pure attachment.                  The monkey smells the sweet, puts his hand into the coconut, grabs                  the sweet and &#8230; the hole is too small to let a fist out of the                  coconut. The last thing a monkey would consider is to let go of                  the sweet, so it is literally tied down by its own attachment.                  Often they only let go when they fall asleep or become unconscious                  because of exhaustion.</p></blockquote>
<p>Ultimately, the Buddha explains that our attachment                to life keeps us in cyclic existence or samsara, which does not                bring us continuous happiness.</p>
<p>How can <strong>anger</strong> bring us suffering?<br />
As will be explained in the page on karma, all of our actions have                consequences. Doing harm to others will return to us as being harmed.                Anger is one of the main reasons we create harm to others, so logically                it is often the cause of suffering to ourselves.</p>
<p>How can <strong>ignorance</strong> bring us suffering?<br />
This is explained in two ways:</p>
<blockquote><p>- The conventional explanation is that because                  we are not omniscient, we regularly get ourselves into trouble.                  We do not realise all the consequences of our actions, we do not                  understand other beings and we do not understand why the world                  is exactly the way it is. So we often end up in situations where                  we do not take the best actions. Just reflect for a moment how                  often we think: &#8220;If only I had known this earlier&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>- The more complicated explanation refers to                  the most profound aspect of Buddhist philosophy: <em>ultimate truth</em> or <em>emptiness.</em> This is a vast subject, and also after reading                  the page on <a href="http://viewonbuddhism.org/wisdom_emptiness.html">wisdom</a> it is still                  unlikely that it will be completely clear; it takes years of study                  and meditation to realise the insight into the wisdom of emptiness.                  To put it very simple: reality is not what it seems to us. As                  reality is different from our opinions about it, we get ourselves                  into trouble. As long as we fail to realise the ultimate truth,                  we will be stuck in cyclic existence. While being in cyclic existence,                  we will always experience some aspect of suffering (which is at                  least having the potential for future suffering).</p></blockquote>
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OK, I get it, the President isn’t the only one in charge. The ANC believes in “collective responsibility” (So that nobody has to get blamed when things get screwed up), so I address this to everyone in government – the whole lot of you – good, bad and ugly (That’s you, Blade).]]></description>
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<p><!-- .gareth { text-align: left; } --><span class="gareth"><strong>Gareth Cliff takes a stand for South Africans, STRONGLY expressing the views of so many I am sure!</strong></span></p>
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<p>Finally two STRONG celebrities speaking out about ANC government, their ways, or lack thereof&#8230;.</p>
<p>Archbishop Desmond Tutu and Gareth Cliff.<a title="Dear Government letter - Gareth Cliff" href="http://deargovernment.co.za/2010/10/20/dear-government-by-gareth-cliff/" target="_blank"><img class="size-medium wp-image-409 alignright" title="Dear Government - Gareth Cliff" src="http://energydoctor.co.za/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/deargovernment-300x84.jpg" border="10" alt="dear government letter - Gareth Cliff" width="192" height="54" align="left" /></a></p>
<p>Read the Gareth Cliff article here:</p>
<p><a title="Dear Government letter - Gareth Cliff" href="http://deargovernment.co.za/2010/10/20/dear-government-by-gareth-cliff/" target="_blank">dear-government-by-gareth-cliff</a></p>
<p>Additional websites discussing views and and feedback</p>
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<li class="gareth"><a href="http://www.timeslive.co.za/entertainment/article716599.ece/Cliff-has-a-go-at-ugly-Blade-Zumas-bastards" target="_blank">http://www.timeslive.co.za/entertainment/article716599.ece/Cliff-has-a-go-at-ugly-Blade-Zumas-bastards</a></li>
<li class="gareth"><a href="http://www.timeslive.co.za/entertainment/article718996.ece/Critical-DJ-to-meet-Zuma" target="_blank">http://www.timeslive.co.za/entertainment/article718996.ece/Critical-DJ-to-meet-Zuma</a></li>
<li class="gareth"><a href="http://africartoons.com/cartoon/2220" target="_blank">http://africartoons.com/cartoon/2220</a></li>
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		<title>&#8216;You&#8217;ve got to find what you love,&#8217; Jobs says</title>
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<p><em>This is a prepared text of the Commencement address delivered by Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, on June 12, 2005.</em></p>
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<p>I am honored to be with you today at your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world. I never graduated from college. Truth be told, this is the closest I&#8217;ve ever gotten to a college graduation. Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. That&#8217;s it. No big deal. Just three stories.</p>
<p><img class="alignright" title="Steve Jobs" src="http://images.dailytech.com/nimage/Steve_Jobs_Cackling.jpg" alt="Inspiration - Steve Jobs" width="262" height="197" /></p>
<p>The first story is about connecting the dots.</p>
<p>I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit. So why did I drop out?</p>
<p>It started before I was born. My biological mother was a young, unwed college graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife. Except that when I popped out they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl. So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking: &#8220;We have an unexpected baby boy; do you want him?&#8221; They said: &#8220;Of course.&#8221; My biological mother later found out that my mother had never graduated from college and that my father had never graduated from high school. She refused to sign the final adoption papers. She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would someday go to college.</p>
<p>And 17 years later I did go to college. But I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working-class parents&#8217; savings were being spent on my college tuition. After six months, I couldn&#8217;t see the value in it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out. And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made. The minute I dropped out I could stop taking the required classes that didn&#8217;t interest me, and begin dropping in on the ones that looked interesting.</p>
<p>It wasn&#8217;t all romantic. I didn&#8217;t have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends&#8217; rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5¢ deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on. Let me give you one example:</p>
<p>Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed. Because I had dropped out and didn&#8217;t have to take the normal classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this. I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great. It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can&#8217;t capture, and I found it fascinating.</p>
<p>None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me. And we designed it all into the Mac. It was the first computer with beautiful typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts. And since Windows just copied the Mac, it&#8217;s likely that no personal computer would have them. If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.</p>
<p>Again, you can&#8217;t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. <strong>So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.</strong></p>
<p>My second story is about love and loss.</p>
<p>I was lucky — I found what I loved to do early in life. Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20. We worked hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a $2 billion company with over 4000 employees. We had just released our finest creation — the Macintosh — a year earlier, and I had just turned 30. And then I got fired. How can you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, and for the first year or so things went well. But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out. When we did, our Board of Directors sided with him. So at 30 I was out. And very publicly out. What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.</p>
<p>I really didn&#8217;t know what to do for a few months. I felt that I had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs down &#8211; that I had dropped the baton as it was being passed to me. I met with David Packard and Bob Noyce and tried to apologize for screwing up so badly. I was a very public failure, and I even thought about running away from the valley. But something slowly began to dawn on me — I still loved what I did. The turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit. I had been rejected, but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.</p>
<p>During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT, another company named Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the worlds first computer animated feature film, <em>Toy Story</em>, and is now the most successful animation studio in the world. In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I returned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple&#8217;s current renaissance. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn&#8217;t been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don&#8217;t lose faith. I&#8217;m convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You&#8217;ve got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. <strong>And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven&#8217;t found it yet, keep looking. Don&#8217;t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you&#8217;ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don&#8217;t settle.</strong></p>
<p>My third story is about death.</p>
<p>When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: &#8220;If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you&#8217;ll most certainly be right.&#8221; It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: <strong>&#8220;If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?&#8221; And whenever the answer has been &#8220;No&#8221; for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.</strong></p>
<p>Remembering that I&#8217;ll be dead soon is the most important tool I&#8217;ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure &#8211; these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.</p>
<p>About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn&#8217;t even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor&#8217;s code for prepare to die. It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you&#8217;d have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.</p>
<p>I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and I&#8217;m fine now.</p>
<p>This was the closest I&#8217;ve been to facing death, and I hope it&#8217;s the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept:</p>
<p>No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don&#8217;t want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life&#8217;s change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.</p>
<p><strong>Your time is limited, so don&#8217;t waste it living someone else&#8217;s life. Don&#8217;t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people&#8217;s thinking. Don&#8217;t let the noise of others&#8217; opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.</strong></p>
<p>When I was young, there was an amazing publication called <em>The Whole Earth Catalog</em>, which was one of the bibles of my generation. It was created by a fellow named Stewart Brand not far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch. This was in the late 1960&#8217;s, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with typewriters, scissors, and polaroid cameras. It was sort of like Google in paperback form, 35 years before Google came along: it was idealistic, and overflowing with neat tools and great notions.</p>
<p>Stewart and his team put out several issues of <em>The Whole Earth Catalog</em>, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final issue. It was the mid-1970s, and I was your age. On the back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous. Beneath it were the words: &#8220;Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.&#8221; It was their farewell message as they signed off. Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish. And I have always wished that for myself. And now, as you graduate to begin anew, I wish that for you.</p>
<p>Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.</p>
<p>Thank you all very much.</p>
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<p><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">Something which I have been saying and teaching for many years is that your mental strength and fitness is one of your greatest assets. So why is it that so many people continue to line themselves up for practically what is to be considered Mental Suicide.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">Have you ever noticed that it can be a beautiful day and you can be in the most beautiful surroundings, but if there is a T.V. around and there is a news story which is full of suffering, hatred, violence or scandal, then the attention of most people will be on it and not on the beauty of their surroundings even if the story has no direct impact on their lives?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">People have been conditioned to allow this sort of mental programming to affect their lives and the lives of their families without even being aware of the damage which this does to their mental state.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">Why is it that we will go to any measure to secure our homes and belongings by putting up high fences, razor wire, security beams and burglar proofing, but when it comes to our most valuable asset (our minds) the majority of time we allow any unsavory or damaging influences in without actually putting the most basic security checks in place?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">It is this unchecked access to our minds which allows the myriad of negative influences which we are exposed to on a daily basis which leads to the slow and drawn out death of positive mindsets in our modern day society.</span></p>
<p><img class="alignleft" title="Mental Strength" src="http://www.phoenixcoyotescare.com/wp-content/plugins/wp-o-matic/cache/d2581_mental_toughness_post.jpg" alt="Mind Power" width="210" height="281" /></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.2px;"><strong>It is nothing more than Mental Suicide</strong> in essence though because this process is not the fault of anyone else but ourselves as <strong>we are responsible to stand watch as the gatekeeper to our own minds</strong>.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">So it can be very easy to turn around and begin to blame:</span></p>
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<li><strong>The Media</strong></li>
<li><strong>Advertising Companies</strong></li>
<li><strong>The Corporate World</strong></li>
<li><strong>The Schooling System or Institutions of Higher Learning</strong></li>
<li><strong>The Government</strong></li>
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<p>And the list can go on and on but in effect we can only blame one source for the negativity which goes into our brain and that is the gatekeeper, ourselves.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">It is each and every person’s personal choice as to what they choose to allow having an effect on their mind as it is your responsibility to do the necessary security checks regarding:</span></p>
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<li><strong>Does this information affect me directly?</strong></li>
<li><strong>Is it of any benefit to me to watch, listen to or read      this?</strong></li>
<li><strong>Can this help me reach my goals?</strong></li>
<li><strong>Is it positively stimulating or enriching?</strong></li>
<li><strong>Will it bring me closer to the Life of Abundance I      desire?</strong></li>
</ul>
<p>These are the basic security checks which we all need to do on a permanent basis in order to stop the poisoning of our minds with negativity.</p>
<p>Failure to do so is the equivalent of mental suicide and there is no one else to blame but ourselves.</p>
<p><strong>A successful Entrepreneur wants to be a leader and not a follower as this is the only way that they can create, protect and enjoy their own success!</strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">Unfortunately the moment that one becomes a leader and makes a success all sorts of negative influences are automatically thrown their way.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">Influences such as:</span></p>
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<li><strong>Jealousy from others</strong></li>
<li><strong>Ignorant and negative criticism</strong></li>
<li><strong>Doubt, speculation and negative input from family and      friends</strong></li>
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<p>And once again the list of negative influences can go on and on and many of them will even present themselves right in the beginning when an aspiring Entrepreneur is only getting started.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">It is your ability to be able to act as the effective gatekeeper to your own mind at this stage which could easily make the difference between you succeeding or failing in your endeavors not only in business, but in every aspect of your life.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">You need to strive to keep your mindsets free of these negative influences and to focus on creating value in everything you do should you truly want to become a leader in the world of Entrepreneurs.</span></p>
<p><strong>Ways to grow a better mindset:</strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.2px;"><strong>1.</strong><strong> </strong><strong>Conserve and Protect Confidence</strong></span></p>
<p>Make sure that you always conserve and protect your own confidence, avoid people who are continually trying to negatively affect you or break down your own self confidence.</p>
<p><strong>2.</strong><strong> </strong><strong>Don’t take unconstructive criticism personally</strong></p>
<p>As an Entrepreneur you will definitely become the target of a lot of unconstructive criticism, learn to ignore it and how to determine what criticism is there to help you and which is negative and of no benefit to you.</p>
<p><strong>3.</strong><strong> </strong><strong>Protect your own mind</strong></p>
<p>Become the best gatekeeper of your own mind so as to keep all of the negativity out which will lead to the suicide of positive mindsets. This is your most valuable asset so guard it well.</p>
<p><strong>4.</strong><strong> </strong><strong>Avoid Unnecessary Media Exposure</strong></p>
<p>Carefully monitor and choose what you allow the media and other sources to pump into your mind, always check to see whether it affects you directly and if it can possibly have a positive effect on you, if not, simply ignore or avoid it.</p>
<p><strong>5.</strong><strong> </strong><strong>Educate yourself as to the Strategies and Principles of a Wealth Creator</strong></p>
<p>By doing this you will learn how easy it is to be misled by outside influences as a result of conditioning and incorrect mindsets, learn how easy it truly is to become a success and enjoy the life of a Wealth Creator which is filled with abundance and success.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">These are but a few steps which you can take in order grow and become the best you can be.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">All strength to you and remember, your mind is the most important tool any Entrepreneur can have when it is well protected, exercised and correctly focused.</span></p>
<p>More Articles:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.warriormindcoach.com/blog/2010/09/01/great-mental-strength-tips-from-jon-gordon/">http://www.warriormindcoach.com/blog/2010/09/01/great-mental-strength-tips-from-jon-gordon/</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.phoenixcoyotescare.com/columns/player-development/ten-ways-to-improve-your-player%E2%80%99s-mental-strength/">http://www.phoenixcoyotescare.com/columns/player-development/ten-ways-to-improve-your-player%E2%80%99s-mental-strength/</a></p>
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<p>2- If you already found the C, now find the 6 below.</strong></p>
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A vision board is a simple yet powerful visualization tool that activates the universal law of attraction to begin manifesting your dreams into reality.


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<p>A vision board is a simple yet powerful visualization tool that activates the universal law of attraction to begin manifesting your dreams into reality.</p>
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<p>The concept of the   vision board (also known as a goal board, goal map, or treasure map) has   been around for generations, but it’s gained a renewed interest and   popularity after success expert John Assaraf related his story of using   vision boards to achieve his dreams in the best-selling DVD documentary <strong>The Secret</strong>.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>WHAT&#8217;S A VISION BOARD?</strong></span></p>
<p>A vision board is simply a visual representation or collage of the   things that you want to have, be, or do in your life. It consists of a   poster or foam board with cut-out pictures, drawings and/or writing on   it of the things that you want in your life or the things that you want   to become.</p>
<p>The purpose of a vision board is to activate the law of attraction to begin to pull things from your external environment that will enable   you to realize your dream. By selecting pictures and writing that   charges your emotions with feelings of passion, you will begin to manifest those things into your life.</p>
<p><strong>THE SCIENCE BEHIND THE LAW OF ATTRACTION</strong></p>
<p>What exactly is the law of attraction? The law of attraction states that we attract into our lives anything that we give attention   to, regardless whether it be positive or negative.</p>
<p>From a   psychological view, the law of attraction can be best explained by the information filtering system of the brain   known as the reticular activating system (RAS). Vision boards serve the   role of programming the RAS to tune into external stimuli that can help   us move closer towards our intentions.</p>
<p>At the base of the human brain stem, in between the medulla oblongata   and the mesencephalon, there is a small finger-sized control center   called the reticular activating system (RAS) that sorts and evaluates   incoming data.</p>
<p>Your RAS is responsible for filtering all the   incoming information that your brain receives and it also acts as   receiver for information that is tagged as important.</p>
<p>A simple way to conceptualize the RAS is to think of it like a radio.   You are surrounded by radio waves from various stations and your   portable radio can pick up those channels, but only one at a time. You   have to tune your radio to a specific frequency of your favorite radio   station in order to receive it properly.</p>
<p>Your RAS is not much different   in this regard. Imagine you are in a meeting room talking to several   people and out in the distant corner of the room you hear your name. All   your focus gets diverted in the direction that you heard your name   because that bit of information is tagged by the RAS as important to   you.</p>
<p>Your RAS is responsible for having the ability to sleep through the   noise of traffic outside your room, but waking up suddenly at the   smallest cry from your infant child. Another example of the RAS at work   is when you go and buy a brand new car and then suddenly you notice many   more people around your city have that exact same car.</p>
<p>According to Hans Morvec, the principal research scientist at the   Robotics Institute of Carnegie Mellon University, the human brain can   handle up to 100 trillion bits of information at any given time.</p>
<p>With   all that information coming in, how does your RAS know what to filter?   Your RAS is naturally programmed to prioritize information that is   necessary for survival, like listening for a the particular sound of an   oncoming vehicle when walking close to a street.</p>
<p>The RAS can’t distinguish between a real event and a   contrived reality, however, and we can exploit this weakness to program   it to seek out stimuli in our environment that resonate with our goals.   The process of creating a vision board is one of the best ways to   program the RAS.</p>
<p>It programs the RAS to pay attention to certain things   in your environment that are in frequency with your goal or vision, in   much the same way as you are able to pick up your name being mentioned   in a conversation on the other side of a room while talking to others.</p>
<p>This selective attention filter makes you aware of daily things that can   help you achieve your goal and it’s your job to take action on those   opportunities when they present themselves.</p>
<p><strong>HOW TO MAKE AND USE YOUR VISION BOARD</strong></p>
<p>Your personal vision board is only limited by the extent of your own creativity.   Some of my students have produced simple vision boards and others have   made vision boards that could probably sell at an art show for hundreds,   if not thousands of dollars.</p>
<p>Having artistic ability is not a   prerequisite for creating a functional vision board however and the   procedures I’ve outlined below can be used by anyone.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">The general elements that a well-designed vision board should include are:</span></p>
<p><strong>Visual.</strong> Your subconscious mind works in pictures and images, so make   your vision board as visual as possible with as many pictures as you   can. You can supplement your pictures with words and phrases to increase   the emotional response you get from it.</p>
<p><strong>Emotional.</strong> Each picture on your vision board should evoke a positive   emotional response from you. The mere sight of your vision board should   make you happy and fuel your passion to achieve it every time you look at it.</p>
<p><strong>Strategically-placed.</strong> Your vision board should be strategically   placed in a location that gives you maximum exposure to it. You need to   constantly bath your subconscious mind with it’s energy in order to   manifest your desires quicker than you hope.</p>
<p><strong>Personal.</strong> Negative feelings, self-doubt, and criticism can damage the   delicate energy that your vision board emits. If you fear criticism or   justification of your vision board from others, then place it in a   private location so it can only be seen by yourself.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter" title="Vision Board" src="http://intentionology.com/images/vision_board_v5xm.jpg" alt="" width="494" height="384" /></p>
<p><strong>Supplies Needed</strong></p>
<p>Foam core board (recommended) or poster board</p>
<p>A large assortment of magazines. You want to make sure that these are in color. You can go to various businesses  to ask for their old issues.</p>
<p>Glue. I prefer the dispenser type tape rollers, commonly used to mount   photos because they are clean and won’t damage your pictures.</p>
<p>Scissors</p>
<p>(Optional) Color inkjet or laser printer</p>
<p>(Optional) 3 1/3” x 4” or larger printer labels. I use Avery #5164 mailing labels that work great.</p>
<p>(Optional) Internet access</p>
<p><strong>Step 1</strong>—Compile your pictures. Start by going through your magazines and compiling all the pictures that you can find that are relevant to   your goal. Don’t evaluate the pictures or start pasting them onto your   board. Just stack them into a pile.</p>
<p>If you are internet savvy, then a   much quicker method that I do myself is to use an internet search engine   to find good pictures that I can use for my board. You can either print   the pictures out on paper and then glue it to the board, or print the   pictures out onto a self-adhesive label so that it becomes a sticker.</p>
<p>This is the preferred method because it is takes much less time to do   and you can pinpoint your pictures using very good technology at your   hands.  Make sure that each image that you put on your board resonates   with your heart and makes you excited at the mere look of it.</p>
<p>It’s also   important when selecting pictures to include anything that is congruent   with your goal, such as any changes in your life that might result from   obtaining your goal. So if your goal is to have a six figure income,   then select pictures of a lifestyle that is congruent with your six   figure income.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Asking yourself the following questions might help you   design a congruent vision board:</span></p>
<ul>
<li>What would you do differently when you realize your goal?</li>
<li>Where would you travel?</li>
<li>Where would you live?</li>
<li>What would you wear?</li>
<li>What things would you own?</li>
<li>What kind of vehicle would you drive?</li>
<li>What would you do for work?&#8230;Or would you work?</li>
<li>Who would you help?</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Step 2</strong>—Sort and Cut. Go through your pile of pictures and select the   ones that impact you the most emotionally. Cut the extraneous material   away from the image.</p>
<p><strong>Step 3</strong>—Arrange and glue. Start arranging your pictures creatively on   your board. Don’t worry about being artistic—that’s not the point. The   point is that your board should resonate with your emotions.</p>
<p>Arrange   your pictures in a way that gives you an emotional connection to your   vision board. After you are satisfied with the arrangement, glue all   your pictures in place. Additionally, you might want to add writing or drawing on your vision board if you feel that it would   better resonate with your emotions.</p>
<p>A feature unique to my vision boards   is that I also put two labels on the bottom of board that read: “Date   created: [today’s date]” and “Date Manifested: [blank]” This lets me   know how long my vision has been gestating since its creation and also   every time I look at my vision board, not only am I emotionally charged   with the pictures, but I also feel an overwhelming sense to see it   manifested to completion.</p>
<p><strong>Step 4</strong>—Strategic positioning. The most important part of having a   vision board is having it in a strategic location that gives you as much   visual exposure to it throughout the day. For most of us, this is in   the office, but if that is not possible or appropriate, then try your   living room or your bedroom.</p>
<p>Some people I know mount their vision   boards on the ceiling above their bed so that it is the first thing they   see when they wake up and the last thing they see when they go to   sleep. If you are sensitive to what others might say of your vision   board, then be sure to keep it in a safe area where only you will see   it.</p>
<p>Negative criticism or justification of your dreams can kill the   energy that your vision board releases. As Brian Tracy states, “What they don’t know, can’t hurt you.”</p>
<p><strong>Step 5</strong>— Update your vision board. Your vision board has to inspire you. It has to charge you with renewed passion everytime you look at it and over time and as you progress closer   towards your vision, you might find that some of the images or pictures   on your vision board don’t really carry as much emotional impact on you   as they did before.</p>
<p>When this happens, you’ll want to update your vision   board with new fresh images that do inspire you. You’re vision board is   not a finished piece of art after its initial creation. It’s a dynamic   piece of art that shifts and changes as your vision shifts and changes.</p>
<p>Therefore, if you find your level of passion that your vision board   gives you is growing weaker, then update it to bring fresh new emotions   to it.</p>
<p><strong>FAMOUS EXAMPLES OF THE LAW OF ATTRACTION</strong></p>
<p>Here are three examples of famous people who have used the techniques of visualization to activate the law of attraction in their lives. Although not all of them specifically used vision   boards to get what they wanted, the applications that they used were   similar in function.</p>
<p>John Assaraf’s Vision Board. Successful entrepreneur and author, John   Assaraf, brought the age-old concept of a vision board to the   mainstream public by relating his story of it in the motivational   documentary, The Secret.</p>
<p>In May of 2000, John was working in his home   office inside his beautiful new home in Southern California when his   five-year old son came in and asked him what were in the dusty boxes in   the corner of his home office. John told him that it contained his   vision boards. His son didn’t understand what they were, so John opened   one of the boxes to show him. When John pulled out the second board from   the box, he began to cry.</p>
<p>On it was a picture of a 7000 square foot   house on top of six acres of spectacular land that he had seen and cut   out from Dream Homes magazine in 1995. It was the exact house that he   had just purchased several weeks prior—A sure testament to the law of attraction at work.</p>
<p>Bruce Lee’s Letter. The late martial arts legend and my own personal role-model, Bruce Lee, understood the power of the law of attraction.</p>
<p>As a struggling entrepreneur and actor, Bruce sat down one day and   wrote the following letter to himself: “By 1980, I will be the best   known oriental movie star in the United States and will have secured $10   million dollars… And in return, I will give the very best acting I   could possibly give every single time I am in front of the camera and I   will live in peace and harmony.”</p>
<p>In 1973, months after Bruce’s untimely death, the blockbuster movie Enter the Dragon was released in both the United   States and China, elevating Bruce to the level of an international star.   According to Jack Canfield, that very letter that Bruce wrote to   himself is hanging up on one of the walls at Planet Hollywood in New   York City.[8]</p>
<p>Jim Carrey’s Check. As a struggling young comedian trying to make it   in the make or break city of Hollywood, Jim Carrey was just about ready   to give up his dream of becoming a professional actor and comedian.</p>
<p>He   had just performed at an open mic session at one of the nightclubs in   Los Angeles and had been booed off the stage by his audience. He sat by   himself at the top of Mulholand Drive and looked out at the city below   him—the city that held his future success or failure.</p>
<p>He then pulled out   his check book and wrote himself a check for $10 million dollars and   made a note on it: “for acting services rendered.”</p>
<p>He then carried that   check with him in his wallet everywhere he went from that day forward.   By 1995, after the success of his blockbuster movies: Ace Ventura: Pet   Detective, Dumb and Dumber, and The Mask, his contract price had risen   to the price of $20 million dollars.</p>
<p><strong>Conclusion</strong></p>
<p>Vision boards are an important tool in your success tool box. They   are cheap to make and their potential value to you is immeasurable.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;">Figure out <strong>what you want</strong> in your life and then <strong>commit yourself 100%</strong> towards making that first step of creating your vision board and   activating the law of attraction to pull your dreams into reality.</span></p>
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<p>If you find that you are on your way to burnout or already suffering from burnout symptoms, there are things you can do to work against it.</p>
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<p>One of the most effective things you can do to fight burnout is to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">create fulfillment</span> at work. This has a very large effect on you because we spend many hours of our day at our jobs or business.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">The following list includes suggestions you can implement to find more fulfillment at work.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong>1. Make a list of all the ways in which your work makes a difference</strong>. Instead of looking at your job as a mere source of income, think of it as a way in which you give back to society. The way you view your job has a great impact on how you feel about it.</p>
<p><strong>2. De-clutter your office. </strong>Try to have as few papers and objects on your desk as possible. The more clutter you have around you, the more stressed out you will be.</p>
<p><strong>3. Categorize</strong>. In addition to de-cluttering your desk and office, categorize the tasks you do on a regular basis. Label them as “like”, “dislike”, and “absolutely hate”. Find ways to delegate the tasks you “absolutely hate” and as many of the tasks that you “dislike” as possible.</p>
<p><strong>4. Find fulfillment outside of work.</strong> Create a life for yourself completely outside of work. Join volunteer organizations, political parties, or any group that you are interested in. This outside interest will give you a distraction from work to look forward to.</p>
<p>Suggested Action Steps for Recovery from Career Burnout and for Avoiding it Altogether</p>
<p>Recovery from burnout syndrome is possible. However, it requires your <span style="text-decoration: underline;">determination, persistence, and patience</span>. It doesn’t happen overnight.</p>
<p>This is why you should try to avoid burnout altogether. Not only will you be able to enjoy life more but your family will as well. Remember that the way you feel about yourself, your career, and life in general is reflected in every single interaction you have with people on a daily basis… including communication with your loved ones.<br />
Here are some things you can do to begin establishing stronger boundaries in your life.</p>
<p><strong>1. Change your focus- Is your career your life?</strong> Or is it one part of your life? Set limits and make sure that you are not tying your identity to your career. When you attach your sense of self to your job, you are left with a feeling of emptiness, a lack of fulfillment, and a lack of satisfaction. You give way too much power over yourself to your career.</p>
<p><strong>2. Set boundaries </strong>- Don’t bring work hor limit it to just one day per week or month. Set specific times during the week to take a few minout for yourself. Find ways to focus on the time you are spending with your family while you are at home.</p>
<p><strong>3. Take a walk</strong> &#8211; Taking a walk and leaving your office, even if for a few minutes, allows you to clear your mind for that time. Changing the scenery around you is a good way to create breaks in your day while getting re-energized.</p>
<p><strong>4. Leave your office for lunch </strong>- Try not to eat your lunch at your desk. Leaving your office for 30 minutes or one hour is one of the best things you can do for yourself. Not only does it improve your focus, but it also decreases anxiety levels in you. Get out of your office and socialize even if just for a few minutes.</p>
<p><strong>5. Rearrange your priorities</strong> &#8211; Take your life by the horns and direct it to where you want it to be. If you are not spending enough time for yourself or with your family, make changes in your list of tasks that allow this free time. Delete items from your “to do” list that are not necessary for your end goals. You’d be surprised at how many tasks and responsibilities we place on ourselves that really have no impact on our main goals or bottom lines.</p>
<p>Rearranging your priorities enables you to analyze what you’ve been doing that takes the most time. This way you can think of alternate ways of dealing with those tasks or even delegating them if that is possible. It also helps you realize what tasks have been the most effective for your company or employer.</p>
<p><strong>6. Simplify your life</strong> &#8211; The more you have, the more you have to work to pay for it or to find it. Simplifying your life can be as easy as having less clutter in your home office or your desk at work. Two other important things you can do are cut out negative relationships that drain your energy and spirit and automate anything that you can. Create as many systems as you can at home and at work.</p>
<p><strong>7. Learn to Say “No” </strong>- Stop taking on responsibilities and tasks that are not yours to begin with. Learn to set boundaries with colleagues. As you begin to re-arrange your priorities, you will realize what tasks are most effective and which ones waste your time most. Once you know this information, say no to anything that gets in the way of your work life balance.</p>
<p><strong>8. Flexible Work Schedule</strong> &#8211; To avoid burnout, you may try to work a few days in a month from home. This is a very popular option right now since technology allows us to check emails, answer phones, and be connected to our office from the comfort of our homes. Working from home is a great way to increase the hours available to your during the day. Still, remember to designate office hours for yourself and to stick to them. Set a timer, lock the door of your home office, put your computer away, and do anything else that will create an ending point to your work day.</p>
<p><strong>9. Take a mini-vacation</strong> &#8211; Even if it’s just a day at the park, you deserve to have at least one mini-vacation for yourself and your family every so often. Use your creativity. It doesn’t have to be expensive. Plus, it allows you the opportunity to see and experience other things that life has to offer.</p>
<p><strong>10. Laugh more often </strong>- Laughing is a wonderful stress buster. Make sure to watch comedy films and shows. Spend time with people who lift your spirits, inspire you, and make you happy.</p>
<p>Remember that <span style="text-decoration: underline;">work life balance</span> is the key to professional and personal success, that it changes as you transition through stages in life, and that the level that works best for you is individual and completely different to what may work best for another.</p>
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